I Hit The Big 5-0 and All I Can Ask Is “What’s Next?”
Not every woman hitting the BIG birthday is completely lost. But a quick search confirms that for most of us, we approach the big 5-0 in a weird limbo where all we have is confusion, regret, doubt and never-ending questions. Is this all there is? How the hell did I...
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Are You Giving 100 Percent Every Day?
Most people thought I was living a dream life. And to the outside world, maybe it was true. But inside, something different was going on. Inside, I’d started living my life on autopilot, merely going through the motions day in and day out. Autopilot has a way of...
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Do Marriages Survive Midlife Crisis?
There’s a song out there by Clint Black called Something That We Do. The lyrics have always rung true to me: Love is certain, love is kind Love is yours and love is mine But it isn't something that we find It’s something that we do It's holding tight, lettin' go It's...
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5 ProAging Techniques Every Woman Over 40 Should Use
Growing up as a young woman in America, I was bombarded by every form of media trying to convince me that the only way to age was to stay as young as possible. Buy this cream to keep your youthful skin. Do these exercises to keep the body of a twenty-something. I...
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What It’s Like To Find My Tribe
I was the one who hated high school. I had just a few friends. I enjoyed our time together. But overall, I hated everything about high school. I wasn’t me. I didn’t feel like I was in my right space. I didn’t know who I was yet, but I knew the people around me weren’t...
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Unusual Advice For Any Midlifer Wanting To Make Big Changes
If I go back in time to my great grandparents’ generation, they were doing everything they could to escape the chaos of what was happening in Europe. America meant freedom. And so, they came. I was reminded of that these past few weeks as I connected with a distant...
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Don’t Just Survive, Thrive In Midlife
I remember the first time I met someone and thought “how old they were”, only to discover they were younger than myself. “Am I that old?” “Do I look that old?” The first time it happened, I was in shock. The second time, I started taking notice of who I was. Am I in...
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NEW RELEASE: Getting Unstuck
Getting Unstuck: 101 Life Changes That Will Put You On The Road To A New You Why this book? Are you stuck? Stuck in a dead-end job you hate? Stuck in a relationship that no longer works for you? Stuck in a life that is anything but inspiring? Welcome to midlife!...
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Are You Simply Too Busy For These 5 Things?
Think small things don’t matter? What if a surgeon makes a cut a few millimeters too deep? Or a pilot tries to land a plane a few feet from the runway? Disaster. Some things matter. And in some cases, certain things matter more than others. Imagine being too...
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The Problem With Becoming A Fake You
Are you a fake person? I was too. Fakeness comes when you don’t live your truth. When you live a life of lies. Fake people spend so much time trying to please everyone around them and work hard to be all things to all people, that they forget they’re...
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